Hello Amy! I just found out that my boyfriend of 1 year plus is gay. He told me that piece of information through sms. I should have trusted my intuition when he brought his 'friends' over at his place while I was there too,hanging out with him. At first, they were just plain 'effeminate' so I didn't put too much thought in it and I don't want my boyfriend to think I was over-reacting. I felt betrayed and angry that he treated me like a spare tyre in front of his 'normal' and more 'macho' friends.
Why do guys become gays anyway?!
Advice:
I guess the problem lies in the misunderstanding of relationship vs. big-brother ties. Nowadays, gays have been emerging from everywhere. They are bolder and even display PDA. Its not that I'm against Gays, but its just that people want to explore beyond their normal sexual orientation. Well, at least give him credit for being honest to you as he doesn't want to lie to you anymore! But give him the opportunity to explore himself. It's time for you now to self-heal and move on. You see, its not you, its him. Don't blame yourself for not being able to satisfy him as a girl because you can't change him or yourself (even if he wants you to). It's okay. It's better for you to realise you lose him to a guy rather than another girl, (worse still, whom you know) Don't you think so? =)
xoxo, AMY
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